You redacted all of your posts(even ones that had nothing to do with this)- this was not an appropriate way of handling the situation.
First, a disclaimer. All I have to go on with this is the information at hand. Stormfox, Tsukos and I all brought up your clan and yet Zephiris, whos only public interaction with you has been one short post in this thread, is the one you blame. Logically, there must be more involved- which you probably quoted in your posts, but they're gone. So it looks like you got really, really mad over one post, which I'm sure isn't what happened.
In another thread, you said
The last straw was when my mate stepped over the line after I asked him not to.
If you were referring to his post in this thread I want to say that I think his post was impressively civil despite his obvious anger.
You seem to get upset every time someone has a different opinion about your clan. This kind of "with me or against me" mentaility is incompatible with mature discussion. Do not take what other people think so seriously and do not bring up things you aren't willing to see questioned.
Anything that results in the permanent loss of content is extremely detrimental to the integrity of the board. People's experiences like this are especially precious- we can all learn from each other's path.
Furthermore, I think we should not discuss the subject any more as Kikobi is clearly too sensitive about it to discuss it objectively. Which is just fine. I'm also locking the thread, since nearly all of it, indeed all content pertaining to its original subject, is gone- unless Kikobi happened to save his posts somehow and would be willing to restore them.
I want to leave the door open; I am neither with you nor against you at this point. I'm just stopping the drama. If there's still an unresolved conflict I'd be happy to get on skype and talk about it, but this isn't a place for fighting.
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